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Private Somatic Coaching

The Unmasking Pathway: Healing Beyond the "Noisy Mind"

The Problem:

Traditional coaching and productivity hacks often fail the ADHD brain because they are "top-down", trying to use your mind to fix a problem that lives in your body. For women with ADHD, this often creates a painful cycle of over-functioning, burnout, and chronic self-abandonment.

The Solution:

We bypass the "analysis paralysis" to work directly with your physiology. As a Board-Certified Health & Wellness Nurse Coach, I provide a container that understands the biology of your stress response. We work directly with the physical sensations of burnout, overwhelm, and the deep somatic imprint of Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD).

The Container:

As a Board-Certified Health & Wellness Nurse Coach and Psychiatric Nurse, I provide a clinically-grounded, trauma-informed container where neurodivergent women can:

  • Track Your Nervous System: Learn to recognize your biological cues and move from "fight, flight, fawn, or freeze" into "rest and safety", so you can stop running on adrenaline.

  • Build Somatic Resilience: Develop the capacity to tolerate the intense sensations of RSD, enabling you to set boundaries without guilt and speak your truth without panic.

  • Metabolize the Mask: Safely process and release the stored stress and physical tension from a lifetime of masking and self-abandonment, allowing you to finally rest without anxiety.

  • Reclaim Your Intuition: Learn to listen to and trust your body’s "gut feelings", empowering you to stop abandoning your own needs to seek external validation and start leading from within.

Our Frameworks:

We blend clinical strategy with deep soul work using a dual-lens approach:

  • The Biology: We use Polyvagal Theory and Nervous System Mapping to identify your unique safety and danger cues, helping you move out of "fight, flight, freeze, or fawn (the biological root of people-pleasing)."

  • The Soul: We use Archetypal patterns and energetic frameworks (when they resonate) to rediscover the authentic self waiting underneath the mask.

How We Work Together:

A 3-Month Somatic Journey from High-Functioning Freeze to Embodied Safety.

To support your neurodivergent nervous system, we move beyond the standard "12-week sprint" model. Instead, we operate on a specific 3:1 Rhythm designed to prevent coaching burnout and honor your need for processing time.

The Structure:

  • 3 Weeks of Deep Work: Weekly 60-minute somatic sessions to process triggers and build tools.

  • 1 Week of Integration: Every fourth week is a dedicated "Integration Week" for your nervous system to catch up. Just as a muscle grows during rest, your nervous system needs space to metabolize our work.

What’s Included:

  • 1 Comprehensive Somatic Intake: Deep dive mapping of nervous system history, safety cues, and medical baseline. (120 minutes via Zoom)

  • 8 Private Somatic Coaching Sessions (60 minutes via Zoom)

  • 2 "Somatic 911" Sessions: Bonus SOS calls for acute regulation when life happens. (30 minutes via Zoom)

  • Between-Session Regulation Support: Direct access to me via email between sessions for real-time regulation support when life happens. (Note: Messaging is for coaching and regulation support, not for medical or psychiatric emergencies. Responses provided within 24 business hours.)

  • Custom Somatic Toolkit: Breathwork, movement, and grounding protocols tailored to your specific nervous system profile. (Optional: Depending on your preference, this may also include Archetypal mapping, energetic frameworks, or Tarot/Oracle for intuitive exploration).

This is not about "fixing" you; it’s about creating the deep, internal safety that allows your authentic self to finally unmask and bloom.

I bring 5+ years of psychiatric nursing experience to our sessions. Please note: While I use my background to provide a safe, trauma-informed container, our work together is coaching-focused and does not include diagnosis or medical treatment.

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Private Somatic Yin

Targeted Release for the Armored Body

Trauma, masking, and high-functioning anxiety create "body armor"—dense areas of tension in the jaw, hips, and shoulders that talk therapy cannot reach. This is not an athletic "workout." It is fascial release. In a safe 1:1 container, we use long-held postures supported by props to signal to your nervous system that it is finally safe to let go.

This practice is a radical act of unlearning self-abandonment. It teaches you how to:

  • Soothe and down-regulate an overstimulated or "noisy" nervous system.

  • Move out of "doing" and into the restorative power of "being."

  • Practice staying with yourself in stillness, even when it feels uncomfortable.

  • Create space in your body to release the physical tension built up from years of masking.

This is your dedicated time to stop performing, stop compensating, and simply allow your body and mind to rest.

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Rhythm & Regulation

Discharge, Then Recharge.

Designed for the neurodivergent nervous system, this class blends Dancing Mindfulness with Yin Yoga. We honor your body's need to move first. We use Afro-Beats and Neo-Soul to mobilize and discharge excess energy (shaking, stomping, swaying), allowing you to settle into stillness without the struggle.

The Vibe: No choreography, no "right moves," just safe embodiment.

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The Nervous System Lab

Master the Biology of Your Own Behavior.

Why do you freeze when you have a deadline? Why do you snap when you get home? These aren't just workshops; they are Labs. We bridge the gap between psychiatric science and somatic wisdom. We experiment with practical tools to manage sensory overload, melt the freeze response, and build a "Somatic Care Menu" that actually works for your brain. We don't just learn the theory of safety; we practice the physiology of it.

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Somatic Integration Circles

A Sanctuary for the "Too Much."

A monthly clinical-spiritual container designed to help you metabolize the noise of the world. Whether you are integrating a recent diagnosis, a life transition, or just the sensory overload of the week, we gather to reflect, unmask, and co-regulate. This is a judgment-free zone where you can find community without having to explain yourself.